Monday, August 31, 2009

To Sleep or not to Sleep

Spencer has always had troubles sleeping. It is super annoying! His latest problem is that he talks in his sleep. Actually he screams in his sleep, waking him up just enough to scream out to us but not enough to stay awake until we get to him. However, if you don't go in and lay him back down he will continue to scream for you ever 5 min. We don't know how to fix this problem.
Then next problem is that he is waking up at 6 am. No matter that he is going to bed late. He is still waking up early. I remember that Preston did this same thing when he was this age. He out grew it and so I am hoping Spence will too.
If any of you have advice, we would love to hear it!

Monday, August 24, 2009

What is it like to have your Appendix out?

It feels like you are 8 1/2 months prego....For example: 

You have a hard time getting out of bed so you roll to your side, do a shuffle, deep breaths and then with a little luck you are out. 

If anything falls on the floor it is either going to stay there or else you are going to pick it up with your feet. There is a grape on the floor downstairs right now that rolled under table and can't be reached with my toes.

The laundry is not folded as nice as normal, however with appendix it is not folded at all because I can't bend down to get it out or in to washer/dryer.

My kids are getting away with so much cause lets face it I am not really going to get up and put them in time out.

I refuse to let any kind of pressure touch my belly, so just like when prego all of my pants are sitting below gut. It is a prefect picture of white trash momma!!

Lastly, I can only sleep on my back which I HATE!

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Appendicitis and Pregnancy

Well, we never seem to have uneventful pregnancies. Although having an appendectomy during pregnancy is the "most common extra uterine surgery" performed on prego women, the chances of this happening is still only about 1 in 2000. Since our friend Page had this happen to her less than a year ago, that would make our chances astronomically small right? Not really.

Aside from having extreme morning sickness this time around, Rachel started to feel "ill" in a way she had never felt before a couple days ago. By Friday afternoon she had pain right above her belly button and was shuffling around the house like someone 60 years her elder. Me being determined to finish laying tile in the kitchen before school starts this week and manage the household just attributed this to more of the same pregnancy discomfort. Aren't I the idiot? By 1130 at night she hobbled down into my office and said her pain had now moved down and to the right. Probably the most classic sign of appendicitis. We cracked open my physical exam book and worked through a couple other signs and symptoms and were getting pretty sure this was the problem. Yet, we hesitated mainly due to 1) how much this is going to cost us 2) how horrible it is going to the ER on a Friday around midnight. After a quick prayer and a little more thought we decided Rachel should go in. I stayed with the kids a little longer and awaited news.

Most fortunate for us, our neighbor and friend Toby Enniss (surgeon extraordinaire) was on call and told Rachel that she had classic appendicitis no need to do any additional testing and that she needed to have her appendix out immediately. Although we are far from family, we are close to many great friends and Richard Swensen was able to come over and stay with our boys while I went to the hospital. By 6am Rachel went into surgery, by 730 she was done, and by around 830 she was coming too. We were even more blessed to have another friend as the day surgeon, Aaron Blackham. Who took care of her in recovery and got her home last night (she could have stayed another day if she wanted, but I think we all know that if you want to get better quicker, you should probably do that at home). Our boys pushed her out of the hospital on a wheel chair and on their own decided that they wouldn't "jump on her belly" for a little while. How sweet.

As for the pregnancy, appendicitis and pregancy isn't the best combo for mom or baby, so we will just be waiting for her first pre-natal visit to see how things are going, not much else we can do at this point. Rachel is due March 24th (making her about 10 weeks along now). Which as some of you may know, is about a week before I have to take one of the bigger...if not biggest, test of my life, United States Medical Licensing Exam USMLE Step 1). But, it isn't as though we haven't faced challenges like this before, and in the end, the proper perspective is this: Family first, because all the other stuff is just extraneous and tends to get in the way of what really matters.

A huge thank you for all the prayers, meals, and support we have received from everyone. It makes things so much easier!

Cheers,

Garett


PS We could have posted a picture of a grody inflammed appendix,Rachel's laparoscopicincisions, or something of the like...but that would probably just take away from the story a little for most readers ;-)

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

NC Outdoors

A couple weeks ago Garett's brother Jeff came out from AZ for a visit. It was his first time coming out to the East Coast and to say he was amazed at how green and alive things are out here is an understatement. We all went to the Great Smoky Mountain National Park and camped for one night on the "Big Creek." It was awesome. You might think that with this much water there would have been mosquitoes galore, but not so. There is no "standing" water so there are no places for mosquitoes to breed. Awesome! And the foliage is so thick that we didn't need sunscreen either.


Spencer only fell 7 times while we were there, fortunately not into the water.
After family camping for one night, Garett, Jeff, and David (Garett's friend) hit the trail and camped on top of Mount Sterling the first night. It was a 6.1 mile hike, up hill to the top.
The second day they hiked about 16.5 miles through some awesome less traveled back country trails.

Since Jeff had never seen DC before we drove up there. He would go into town on the metro during the day to see the sights while we would hang out with Lance and Stephanie. One evening we went up to see the DC temple and some exhibits there, it was awesome.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Is it just him?



Since birth I have described Spencer as just "Spencer". He is a little different from everybody else. However, while we where in DC last week my sister-in-law used another term to describe him (after he got a huge cut on his foot, blood gushing everywhere...) and I think I am starting to truly agree.

ACCIDENT PRONE!!!

I write this after the fact that he just fell off a chair and now has a huge black eye. I'm thinking that Garett needs to go into Emergency Medicine, it may come in handy as Spencer get older!

Heart Melting

Preston has started this new head tilting thing. He does it when he doesn't understand you or if you are getting mad at him. He has a cute little grin to go with it. I love it and wish I could get it on film. He doesn't understand the power he could have if he used this for evil and lets hope he never does!!

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

We have a illness

When we got back from AZ we knew we didn't want to travel for a long time but knowing we had to go to Canada that wasn't an option. Once we got back from Canada we swore not to travel for many months. That next week we went Camping at a place that was 3 hours away. Then just for the fun of it we headed up to DC for the weekend. Truly it is a illness, we just can't stop. So next week my friend Verna is coming into town and we are going to the coast, just the girls. Then I think we can finally say that we are done traveling for awhile. However, our friend is graduating down at Ft. Bragg at the end of this month..............We need to go to TA (Traveler Anonymous).

I know I need to post pictures of all the traveling but I am not home enough to do that!