Saturday, September 12, 2009

Early Ultrasound




Since Rachel had her $12,000 appendectomy surgery a couple weeks ago (fortunately we already met our deductable this year) they wanted to get her in for an early ultrasound to make sure baby was doing good. Since she is just 12.5 weeks along we couldn't tell the sex yet, so we will keep you posted on that. Her due date is still March 21st.

We think it is a boy based on how he is laying:



Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Hummus

2 weeks ago Garett bought some hummus opened it and had just a little. Sunday after church Garett gets said hummus out to snack on while making lunch. I had a few bites but was already not feeling great, where as Garett ate the rest of the container. 2 hours later Garett is complaining of stomach ache. 3 hours later we head off to a small get together with friends with neither one of us feeling great. Sunday night Garett gets a fever and the chills. Since I am prego and have pills for this sort of thing, I feel good enough to get our boys to bed. 3 in the morning, Garett can't sleep and is on the computer---sure enough, Hummus can cause food poisoning. Monday Garett is on the mend but no where near feeling good. I am sicker then I have ever been in my life, which is saying a lot since what I have been going through lately. Not even drugs help out. It is early Tuesday morning and I can't sleep, partly because I feel asleep at 8 pm.

So what does all this mean.....
1. Guilt. Yep, I have huge guilt. You see, Garett is an amazing husband and he has truly been running the house and serving me night and day but 2 weeks ago when I was having appendix pain before we found out it was appendix pain, Garett was stressed out because school was starting and he had a lot of other things going on. Let's just say he was not the nicest to me on that day as I was dying. So I said a little prayer asking that he somehow learn to have a little more sympathy. I mean the guy can't even remember the last time he felt sick. My prayer was answered this weekend and I feel a little bad, but I can't tell you how many times Garett said he is sooooo sorry I feel so sick all the time!
2. It also means that we really are not planning on having anymore kids. We won't write it in stone but for sure writing it in permanent ink!!

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Yummy

If I am in the car for longer then 15 min. I get sick. Really sick. So when we decided to go to Ft. Bragg for a quick trip I knew it would be bad. Needless to say when we got home a little while ago I did not feel like making dinner. So I quickly made cheese crisp for the boys and let Garett figure something for himself. After eating 2 cheese crisp Preston turns to me and says "Mommy you are the bestest cook ever!'' Gotta love it.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Things I want to Remember:

Preston is 3 1/2. His favorite color is Orange. His favorite toy is bear. He loves chicken, sushi, fruit, lettuce and chocolate. He has learned to wrestle and practices on his brother. His favorite movie is still anything backyardigans. He love to play Knight is shining armor to kill the dragon (Salta) and save the Princess (Mommy).  He makes up songs all day long and shakes his booty. He is learning to write his name by himself and loves preschool. He just learned how to buckle himself in the car! He loves primary, especially singing time but never really sings. He loves books. His favorite friends to play with are Spencer, Caleb, Ethan and Camden.  He wants to be a Daddy when he grows up.  He always prays for the kids that don't have toys and for mommy to have a baby girl.


Spencer is 2.  He talks like he is 3. His favorite color is Camo.  He has a camo blanket that he demands he sleeps with. His favorite food is cheese and candy. His favorite toys are cars or whatever Preston is playing with. He loves the idea of watching a movie but never watches for longer then 5 min.  He gets super mad when Preston eats all of his pretend ice cream and there is no more to make.  He hates putting on Pull Ups even if it is just at nap and bed, we now have to call them Calvin Kliens underwear (thanks Lance) to trick him. It doesn't always work. He prefers going Commando( too much info) and loves wearing anything Jean. He hates nursery but want to go to preschool. He thinks his name starts with "P" but sounds like "S". He loves to play in mommy's bathroom and do his hair and has done Preston's hair for church a few times. He love, love, loves books and will read to himself. He has the world's smallest bladder. He loves playing fireman (Woo Woo) and saving mommy from burning up. His favorite friends are Preston and anybody smaller then him to beat up and pick on. He gives the best kisses. He prays for silly grandpa that picks his nose. He hates when he crys and crys and crys.

Monday, August 31, 2009

To Sleep or not to Sleep

Spencer has always had troubles sleeping. It is super annoying! His latest problem is that he talks in his sleep. Actually he screams in his sleep, waking him up just enough to scream out to us but not enough to stay awake until we get to him. However, if you don't go in and lay him back down he will continue to scream for you ever 5 min. We don't know how to fix this problem.
Then next problem is that he is waking up at 6 am. No matter that he is going to bed late. He is still waking up early. I remember that Preston did this same thing when he was this age. He out grew it and so I am hoping Spence will too.
If any of you have advice, we would love to hear it!

Monday, August 24, 2009

What is it like to have your Appendix out?

It feels like you are 8 1/2 months prego....For example: 

You have a hard time getting out of bed so you roll to your side, do a shuffle, deep breaths and then with a little luck you are out. 

If anything falls on the floor it is either going to stay there or else you are going to pick it up with your feet. There is a grape on the floor downstairs right now that rolled under table and can't be reached with my toes.

The laundry is not folded as nice as normal, however with appendix it is not folded at all because I can't bend down to get it out or in to washer/dryer.

My kids are getting away with so much cause lets face it I am not really going to get up and put them in time out.

I refuse to let any kind of pressure touch my belly, so just like when prego all of my pants are sitting below gut. It is a prefect picture of white trash momma!!

Lastly, I can only sleep on my back which I HATE!

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Appendicitis and Pregnancy

Well, we never seem to have uneventful pregnancies. Although having an appendectomy during pregnancy is the "most common extra uterine surgery" performed on prego women, the chances of this happening is still only about 1 in 2000. Since our friend Page had this happen to her less than a year ago, that would make our chances astronomically small right? Not really.

Aside from having extreme morning sickness this time around, Rachel started to feel "ill" in a way she had never felt before a couple days ago. By Friday afternoon she had pain right above her belly button and was shuffling around the house like someone 60 years her elder. Me being determined to finish laying tile in the kitchen before school starts this week and manage the household just attributed this to more of the same pregnancy discomfort. Aren't I the idiot? By 1130 at night she hobbled down into my office and said her pain had now moved down and to the right. Probably the most classic sign of appendicitis. We cracked open my physical exam book and worked through a couple other signs and symptoms and were getting pretty sure this was the problem. Yet, we hesitated mainly due to 1) how much this is going to cost us 2) how horrible it is going to the ER on a Friday around midnight. After a quick prayer and a little more thought we decided Rachel should go in. I stayed with the kids a little longer and awaited news.

Most fortunate for us, our neighbor and friend Toby Enniss (surgeon extraordinaire) was on call and told Rachel that she had classic appendicitis no need to do any additional testing and that she needed to have her appendix out immediately. Although we are far from family, we are close to many great friends and Richard Swensen was able to come over and stay with our boys while I went to the hospital. By 6am Rachel went into surgery, by 730 she was done, and by around 830 she was coming too. We were even more blessed to have another friend as the day surgeon, Aaron Blackham. Who took care of her in recovery and got her home last night (she could have stayed another day if she wanted, but I think we all know that if you want to get better quicker, you should probably do that at home). Our boys pushed her out of the hospital on a wheel chair and on their own decided that they wouldn't "jump on her belly" for a little while. How sweet.

As for the pregnancy, appendicitis and pregancy isn't the best combo for mom or baby, so we will just be waiting for her first pre-natal visit to see how things are going, not much else we can do at this point. Rachel is due March 24th (making her about 10 weeks along now). Which as some of you may know, is about a week before I have to take one of the bigger...if not biggest, test of my life, United States Medical Licensing Exam USMLE Step 1). But, it isn't as though we haven't faced challenges like this before, and in the end, the proper perspective is this: Family first, because all the other stuff is just extraneous and tends to get in the way of what really matters.

A huge thank you for all the prayers, meals, and support we have received from everyone. It makes things so much easier!

Cheers,

Garett


PS We could have posted a picture of a grody inflammed appendix,Rachel's laparoscopicincisions, or something of the like...but that would probably just take away from the story a little for most readers ;-)